Closing Doors and Stepping into New Seasons

In Isaiah 43, God talks about how Mighty He is, How Faithful He is, and what He is yet to do. In verse 3 and 16 He reminds Israel of their deliverance from Egypt.

Deliverance from the impossibility of slavery, Egypt’s armies and crossing the Red Sea, through the impossible.

But then God says in V18(NLT) “But forget all that – it’s nothing compared to what I am going to do.” In another translation (NKJV) it says “Do not remember the former things, nor consider the things of old.” I feel like God is trying to make a point here – DON’T focus on how I’ve DONE things in the past, but FOCUS on the fact that I’ve been faithful to my word.

You can see God get really excited at this point… Because He goes on to say in V19 “For I am about to do something new. See, I have already begun! Do you not see it?” (NLT)

We can get so caught up in past successes and failures that we miss God love us picwhat NEW things God has for us. We will happily close the door on bad things in our past, but the good things? We must be careful not to get stuck in the mindset of, “well that’s how God did it in the past, so that’s how He’ll do it in the future.” Because that is limiting God in your life, unintentionally, but still limiting. God can and will bring good and call you into new sessions in different ways and if you keep looking for the SAME way you will miss the NEW way.

In order for you to move forward you need to let go of the PAST, cherish the good memories remember the lessons learnt, but be willing to step into something completely NEW.

V19 continues to say, “I will make a pathway through the wilderness. I will create rivers in the dry wasteland.’’ Sometimes we can be in a desert or wilderness and we want directions like we were in a city. You can’t jump onto Google maps and type in “current location:’wilderness’, Destination: ‘promised land’”.

God’s not going to say “go straight for 10km then turn right at apply for this job and get it, continue on for 5 years then turn left at salary bonus and enough money to start your dream, continue on for 2 years and destination of perfect life is on your left.”

No, in your wilderness God says head East, and sometimes you have to figure out where East is because you can’t even see the sun through the clouds. Sometimes you have to climb mountains and your legs hurt and feel like they going to fall off before they carry you any further. You might get scrapes and bruises from climbing. Sometimes you walking through deserts sands and it feels like you are going nowhere because your feet keep sinking into the sand and it takes you days just to get a little bit ahead. And then you might just get to a giant thorn bush that you can’t see the end of, and you declare it to be moved or parted because you believe God can and will do it! Because that’s how He did it in the past or in someone else’s life . But God might be saying ‘I need you to walk around it’. You reply ‘No, I have faith for this thing to be moved!’ And God says, ‘Good. I’m glad you have faith, but I still need you to take the long way around.’

So begrudgingly as you walk the long way round, you see wild desert flowers blooming in spite of the harsh environment. You wouldn’t have seen this beauty if you hadn’t gone the long way round and hadn’t been in the desert. There is beauty that only exists in the desert, that can’t exist anywhere else. We need to be open to finding it and seeing it.

Have you ever been in the desert at night? If you look up you can see all of the stars, there’s no other light from cities and street lamps to hinder our view of heaven. Psalm 33:6 says “By the word of the Lord were the heavens made, and all their host by the breath of His mouth.”

You can see the very breath of God, but you need the clarity that the desert, the wilderness, brings to see God in that way. Look for the beauty in your desert; what God is bringing out in you, what He is showing you.

God is faithful to restore. He wont leave you in the desert. Israel is portrayed in the Bible as the land flowing with milk and honey, it’s a beautiful and prosperous land. However, in the 1800 Mark Twain visited Israel and described it as a “blistering and naked treeless land,” “solitude to make one dreary; unpeopled deserts, rusty mounds of barrenness that never, never do shake the glare from their harsh outlines,” “yonder desolate declivity where the swine of the miracle ran down into the sea and doubtless thought it was better to swallow a devil or two and get drowned into the bargain then have to live longer in such a place.” (1)

Apparently not a land flowing with milk and honey anymore! But God is faithful and He has restored Israel not to its former glory but to a new glory. He has done a new thing in Israel. Isaiah 35 v1-2 talks about how the desert shall blossom as the rose. Today there are millions of flowers grown in the desserts of Israel and exported to Europe, Holland even imports tulips form Israel. (1) Isa 27v6 says Israel will fill the earth with fruit. Today Israel has a huge export of fruit to around the world. (1)

God restored the land and made it better than the old, He made it new. But in order for the new to come, the people of Israel had to do things a new way.

Are you ready to close the door on the old and embrace the new?

Do you need to ask God to help you see the beauty in the desert places you are walking through?

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Reference:

(1) Israel and the Church: God’s Roadmap, R.J. Brimmer and other Bridges for Peace Leaders. 2006

Bible’s –            New Living Translation, New King James Version

Image from Propel Woman

The True Strength of Emotion

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emo·tion

noun \i-ˈmō-shən\

: a strong feeling (such as love, anger, joy, hate, or fear)

If there is one fact that has transcended the generations, it is that emotion, or more specifically the inability to “control” one’s emotions, is seen as weak. I believe this came about because women are more likely to show emotion. Also woman are often, or more likely always, thought of as the weaker gender, therefore emotion is a sign of weakness. This lie has been programmed into our society like a deadly virus that is slowly consuming the image God created us in, Himself. I know these seem like excessive words but stay with me a while and let me explain.

What has society taught us?

-Real men don’t cry.                                                                                                                                                                        -You can’t make sound judgments if you are emotional.

I was brought up in a society and culture that saw emotion as a weakness, I was told time and time again, to “stop being so emotional”, “come back and speak to me when you’re not so emotional”, “You must be stronger, not so emotional”. It’s not just me who has experienced this, but many others as well. For example, you see a person at the funeral of a loved one and they not displaying the emotion you expect, they not crying. Our first thought is ‘wow, look how strong they are’, but we have no idea of what they are experiencing on the inside.

I know so many strong women, both Christian and non, who train themselves to mask and hide their emotions. Why? Because the world, and also the church, has taught them that emotion is a sign of weakness. And the sad thing is, they very rarely get the release and freedom that the releasing of emotions brings. These woman aren’t in anyway radical feminists, they just don’t show that part of themselves, because they feel it wouldn’t be accepted.

I have a thought about how society and the church view emotion:                                                                                       “Woman get emotional, but men get passionate”.

You know it’s generally true. If a woman gets up to speak at church, and she starts trying to hold back tears so she can talk or she’s getting a bit loud, we think straight away that she a bit “too emotional”. However, if you see a man do the same thing and it’s seen in a positive light, its seen as passion.

You may be acutely aware of how hard it is to “control” your emotions. In the beginning it is so draining, but only after years of hard work and practice can one truly be “unemotional”. I’m sorry but when did we start trying to be a Vulcan alien race? (Side note for those who have no idea who the Vulcans are – “Vulcans are an extraterrestrial humanoid species in the Star Trek franchise who originate from the planet Vulcan. They are noted for their attempt to live by reason and logic with no interference from emotion” -Thank you Wikipedia.)

We wonder why so many people have issues around their identity, when we are asking them to be something different to who they were created to be.                                                                                                                                                          I believe it’s in our emotion we find our strength, because as soon as we stop trying to fight who we were created to be, we can put our energy into actually doing what God has called us to be and do.

We are told to look at Jesus, for how we should behave and respond to different situations. The cliché WWJD, what would Jesus do, mantra seems to creep in. But let’s have a look at what Jesus did with emotion.

John 11 tells the story of Lazarus’s death and his sisters Mary and Martha. In verse 32 Jesus sees Mary weeping at His feet, she’s heart-broken that she has lost her brother. Now we know from the beginning of this verse that Jesus intentionally waited till Lazarus was dead, because He was going to raise him from the dead “for the glory of God” (verse 4). So Jesus knew he wasn’t going to remain dead, but in verse 35 it says “Jesus wept”. He was literally about to raise the guy from the dead, He knew this, and yet still He chose to connect with Mary in that moment, He allowed His emotion to be seen.

Again we see Jesus showing emotion in Mark 3, when He asks the Pharisees if it is lawful to do good on the Sabbath. Verse 5 states “And when He had looked around at them with ANGER, being GRIEVED by the hardness of their hearts, He said to the man, ‘stretch out your hand.’ And he stretched it out, and his hand was restored as whole as the other.”

That is pretty strong emotions in just that one verse, how did the author, Mark, know what Jesus’ emotions were? How does anyone know what emotion another is feeling? The answer is that they show it. Jesus showed His emotions. And one of the most emotional ‘outbursts’, we find in John 2:13-19. Basically Jesus made a whip. Yes. He made a weapon, overturned tables in the temple and chased merchants out of the temple with said whip. Now if that’s not getting emotional, I don’t know what is!

One of the most powerful moments in the Bible for me is the moment just before Jesus is betrayed and He is asking Father God to take “this cup” (His sacrifice) from Him. We can see Jesus is in extreme turmoil, so much so that He was sweating blood. This rare condition only happens in times of extreme stress. There have been many historical instances of when soldiers going into battle, that knew they were facing death, would start sweating blood. Jesus knew exactly what was about to happen to Him, He knew the pain and suffering He was about to go through, and He knew He would rise 3 days later. My love for Jesus expands every time I look at this, because it was in this moment, that He saved us, by saying to God, “but not my will, but Yours be done.”  You see an action cannot happen without first deciding to do it, and this is where Jesus said YES to you and to me. His emotions were running high! His love for us over came the knowledge of what He was about to go through.

Jesus let His emotions show in the moment of His most important decision, and He chose us.                                             You see people who say you can’t make sound decisions when emotional, clearly haven’t read and understood Luke 22. Jesus made the greatest decision of His life in the midst of great emotion.

Jesus cried. He laughed. He got angry. He got emotional. So if our example is to be Jesus, and we are to live how He lived, we need to be allowed to show our emotion and more importantly be brave enough to show it.

I find I’m the strongest when I’m being who God created me to be. He created me to write. He created me to teach. He created me to dance. He created me to be emotional. So that is who I will choose to be. If the world judges me on that, then so be it, but I will not let the world steal what God created me to be.

So my parting question to you is: Will you be brave and not only let your emotions show, but allow others to show theirs?

“There is a sacredness in tears.

They are not the mark of weakness but of power.

They are messengers of overwhelming grief and

Of unspeakable love”

Washington Irving